About

Confidence isn’t a personality trait.

It’s the ability to trust yourself — especially when no one is validating you.

My work is intentional, grounded, and deeply transformative.

My Framework

  • Become aware

    of your mind's triggers & repetitive thought patterns.

  • Identify

    your key strengths, vital opportunities & primary work areas.

  • Reframe & rewire

    old, stagnant & stuck states into energized, creative & vibrantly creative states.

  • Experience

    mindset shifts, abundant opportunities, flow state and aha moments becoming your new normal.

  • Improve

    confidence, self-worth, self-love, success, creativity, focus, memory, self-image & bring your exceptional self to the table.

  • Empower yourself

    to be your very own dream woman.

Why this work matters

I’ve spent years in leadership roles, leading multiple teams across different disciplines. During that time, I saw firsthand how confidence can radically elevate both professional and personal success.

What became clear again and again was this: capable women don’t struggle because they lack intelligence or ambition, they struggle because they doubt themselves.

Even where progress exists, such as women holding nearly 45% of board seats in the UK’s top companies: female CEOs and executive leaders remain underrepresented. There is still work to be done.

My work is designed to address this at the root — by building confidence from the inside out. I have combined powerful tools like journaling, meditation, visualization & creative art therapy scientifically proven to improve focus, boost confidence, supercharge creativity to give your the authority to truly own your power.

“You can’t be that kid standing at the top of the waterslide, overthinking it. You have to go down the chute.” — Tina Fey

If you’re ready to take action & change the way you operate, show up and leave a lasting impression in the rooms you step into, The Confidence Code is the place to begin.

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You can also find me on Instagram @gehena_thilakesh